emberresources

a curated list of organizations, hotlines, and tools for the lgbtq+ community. ember does not run any of these. they're here because they help.

crisis & immediate supporttherapy & mental healthtrans, nonbinary & gender-affirmingsexual & general healthlegal protection & advocacycommunity & connectionfor specific situations

crisis & immediate support

if you're in crisis right now, real humans are available to talk.

  • 988 suicide & crisis lifeline
    us · call or text 988, available 24/7

    free, confidential support for people in distress and prevention/crisis resources for you or your loved ones.

  • the trevor project
    lgbtq+ youth · call 1-866-488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online

    24/7 crisis intervention for lgbtq+ young people under 25. trained counselors who actually understand.

  • trans lifeline
    us 1-877-565-8860 · canada 1-877-330-6366

    peer-support hotline run by and for trans people. no non-consensual active rescue policy. they will not call police on you.

  • lgbt national hotline
    us · 1-888-843-4564

    free and confidential peer support for the lgbtq+ community of all ages. no time limit on calls.

  • find a helpline (international)

    directory of free, confidential support helplines in 130+ countries. filter by topic and identity.

therapy & mental health

  • inclusive therapists

    directory of therapists committed to anti-racist, lgbtq+-affirming care. filter by identity, modality, and what you need.

  • therapy den

    progressive therapist directory. detailed filters for orientation, gender identity, and what they actively specialize in.

  • open path collective

    sliding-scale therapy ($30-80/session) for people without sufficient insurance.

  • pride counseling

    online therapy specifically for the lgbtq+ community. subscription model, weekly counselor sessions.

trans, nonbinary & gender-affirming

  • point of pride

    free programs for trans folks: chest binders, femme shapewear, hrt access, surgery aid grants.

  • gender confirmation center

    extensive resource library on transition-related care, insurance navigation, and surgery info.

  • plume

    us telehealth for gender-affirming hormone therapy. licensed in most states. flat monthly fee.

  • folx health

    queer- and trans-focused virtual healthcare. hormone therapy, sti testing, primary care.

  • national center for transgender equality

    know-your-rights guides for housing, employment, healthcare, identity documents, and more.

sexual & general health

  • glma: find an lgbtq-friendly provider

    directory of healthcare providers who are explicitly affirming of lgbtq+ patients.

  • planned parenthood

    sexual and reproductive health, sti testing, hormone therapy at many locations, gender-affirming care.

  • lesbian & bisexual health (office on women’s health)

    us gov resource covering preventive care, sexual health, mental health, and finding affirming providers. plain language, well-maintained.

  • national lgbtqia+ health education center (fenway)

    clinical guides and patient education on lgbtq+ health from the fenway institute. detailed, current, evidence-based.

  • getting tested (cdc)

    find free and low-cost sti testing locations near you in the us.

legal protection & advocacy

  • lambda legal
    help desk: 866-542-8336

    national legal organization fighting for lgbtq+ civil rights. free legal help line.

  • aclu lgbtq+ rights

    know-your-rights resources, current legal cases, and advocacy on lgbtq+ issues.

  • movement advancement project (state-by-state)

    interactive maps showing lgbtq+ legal protections (or lack thereof) by us state. useful before moving or traveling.

  • transgender legal defense & education fund

    free legal help for trans people facing discrimination, name change support, id document help.

community & connection

  • pflag

    400+ local chapters for lgbtq+ folks, families, and allies. real in-person community.

  • centerlink (find an lgbt center)

    directory of lgbt community centers worldwide. many offer support groups, social events, healthcare referrals.

  • meetup: lgbtq+ groups

    in-person social groups for everything from book clubs to hiking to game nights.

  • her: sapphic dating + community

    biggest social/dating app for queer women, trans, and nonbinary folks. has community spaces beyond dating.

for specific situations

  • true colors united (lgbtq+ youth experiencing homelessness)

    national org working to end homelessness among lgbtq+ youth. find shelter and resources by location.

  • sage (lgbtq+ elders)
    sage hotline: 877-360-5428

    support, advocacy, and services for lgbtq+ adults 50+. friendly visitor program, hotline, resources for caregivers.

  • q christian fellowship

    inclusive community for lgbtq+ christians. discussion groups, conferences, and resources for reconciling faith and identity.

  • asylum seeker resources (immigration equality)

    legal services and policy advocacy for lgbtq+ and hiv-positive immigrants and asylum seekers.

a note from us

this list is not exhaustive and does not constitute professional advice. the orgs are independent of ember and we don't receive anything from listing them. if a resource here is broken, has issues, or you know of one we should add, email hello@textember.com.

if you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number (911 in the us) or the relevant crisis line above. you matter and there are real people who want to help.

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